1. What values are important to you, so important that you can’t imagine your life without them?
Love of Animals – I love my dogs (and have recently decided to give away my horse) and I cannot imagine daily life without their companionship. I also fell a deep calling to help free animals from suffering and help save them from extinction. I intend to develop my writing skills to address these concerns through my writing. I would also like to research the field of Primatology and complete units in Environmental Science at uni, including Wildlife Conservation & Global Environmental Issues.
Quest for meaningful/fulfilling work – wheras previously my efforts to establish a career were relentlessly focused on zookeeping. I have devoted the last 10 years to volunteer zookeeping, wildlife caring, veterinary nursing in an attempt to secure employment in this field. I now have reenvisioned my life and decided to explore freelance writing/ photography/media production as a career. I have honoured the outcomes of my life coaching process/innerwork by deciding to commit to completing the Bachelor of Media degree over the next few years and making the necessary changes/adjustments in my life in order to succeed. I would also like to establish a daily writing practice and allow some time/space for spiritual development, through animal medicine card/Sacred Path card readings.
Dream of travelling to Africa to see the Mountain Gorillas, The Serengeti and to volunteer in a chimpanzee sanctuary. This is my most cherished wish and I spend much of my free time researching possible placements/preparing for such a journey. To travel to Africa I need to: find a way to earn extra income so that I can save enough money for the trip and to find a way to keep my health condition contained (stay well) so that I am well enough to go. Healthwise, a period of stability for 3 years would be required before it would be safe for me to go.
Learning to manage my (mental & physical) health and overcome my depressive tendancies that keep me stuck. I need take an active approach to managing my mental health condition. I try to be constantly engaged in activity to avoid surcumbing to depression. Planning daily activities and following a daily routine helps to achieve this. I manage my physical health by maintaining a healthy eating plan and regular exercise that helps me to lose weight.
Establishing financial stability and learning to live within my means. To reduce the stress in my life caused by financial difficulty, I need to establish a budget with a built in savings plan (and STICK TO IT!) to allow me to realise my long-term goals & travel plans.
2. What have you done that you are really proud of?
- Established a good work record over the last one & a half years caring for Arabain horses. By focusing on work, I was gradually able to overcome my lethargy/ apathy/negativity. I am proud of having owned my own horse and the skills & experience I have learnt over the years by working with horses.
- Completing my Certificate II in Animal Studies @ TAFE. Over the years, I have attempted many uni & TAFE courses, but I have never been able to complete them. This course was the pre-requisite course to Certificate III in Captive Animals (Zookeeping).
- Weight Loss – lost 35kg since I started my eating/exercise plan. I am hoping to lose more weight by maintaining this eating plan and exercising regularly. My goal weight is 80kg.
3. What motivates you?
Motivation is a core issue in my struggle to overcome depression and manage my mental health condition. I find it difficult to find the motivation to get out of bed each day, sleeping in until after midday on most days. I am giving into the lethargy/negativity/apathy and by not intervening I am recreating each day over and over again. By doing nothing – nothing will change. How can I enrich my day? Perhaps my study may be an effective motivator? There is a lack of intrinsic motivation in my life. I rely too much on others to motivate me and find it difficult to initiate activities/projects on my own. This indicates a mindset of ‘learned helplessness’, a compulsive attitude of ‘giving up’. In the same way I re-educated myself and learned new eating and exercise habits, I need to learn new ways to motivate myself and enrich my life. I need to cultivate a soulful life, develop a deep engagement with the self and my chosen pastimes. These activities need to bring a spirit of joy/liveliness to my everyday reality:- Reading for pleasure and for professional development such as Jane Goodall’s books; research Primatology and complete online study course in Primate Behaviour; What other ways are there to meaningfully engage with life?
4. What must you achieve in this lifetime for you to know that you have lived well and are satisfied with your life?
Previously I dreamed of living contentedly on a rare farmlet and caring for all my animals, including my dog and my horse. Now that I have moved into a self-contained studio and given up my horse, I feel I have lost my bearings. My sole focus in life was trying to become a zookeeper. There is a lot of grief and confusion about putting the old dream to rest. It feels like I have buried this dream and am now trying to revive it by writing about animals. I need to put the same energy & enthusiasm into my new vision.
I would like to embrace a quiet, simple contemplative life, engaged in meaningful activities such as reading, writing, photography, craft, spiritual development… My new home provides financial stability and allows mental/emotional equilibrium, a solid foundation on which to build my new lifestyle. I am also committed to caring for my mother in her senior years. This is a promise I have made to her and I need to factor this living arrangement into my future plans. Our new home provides the perfect base from which we can both lead semi-independent lives.
I would also like to earn some extra income through freelance writing so that I can afford to travel to Africa. My most cherished wish is to travel back to Africa to see the mountain gorillas, The Serengeti and volunteering in a chimpanzee sanctuary. I am going to put my energy & enthusiasm into developing the skills I need to succeed in a freelance writing/photography career and to commit to completing my degree. I am also going to put a financial plan/budget in place and start saving towards my long-term goal.
5. What are your spiritual beliefs?
My spiritual beliefs are based on a reverence for animals. I have an affinity with The Native American Indian culture/belief system. I would like to use my life to make a unique contribution, by helping to: alleviate suffering in (captive) animals, prevent the extinction of endangered species, preserve & protect animal life on the planet.
I would like to devote some time each day to spiritual development by practicing animal card/Sacred Path Card readings.
6. What do you rely on when you have no supports and you need to get through a situation?
I suppose I rely on myself most of the time, as I have so few supports in my life. I rely on mum a lot of the time for companionship, but I cannot really talk to her about my problems. She has lost the ability to listen and engage meaningfully in deep conversation. I crave for deep communication – my soul is yearning to be heard. It’s so difficult internalising everything all the time. Louise commented yesterday that I need to get out of my head and out there getting involved in life doing activities – learning about the chimps etc. I need a creative outlet, something more than my daily journal scribblings. I need to connect with another human being. There is a limit to how much I can sleep and lie on the bed trying to while the time away. I am going to have to come up with a daily structure that keeps me off the bed and getting ‘out there’. Daily activities:
Time |
Daily Activities |
10.00 – 10.15am |
BREAKFAST |
10.15 – 11.30am |
Daily Reading: Earth Medicine, Soulcraft, EcoPsychology, Dancing The Dream |
11.30 – 12.00pm |
Spiritual Development: Animal Card Reading |
12.00 – 1.00pm |
Daily Writing Practice: Morning Pages (Blog) |
1.00 – 1.30pm |
LUNCH |
1.30 – 3.30pm |
Study: EthnoPrimatology Course |
3.30 – 4.30pm |
Reading: Professional Development – primate literature |
4.30 – 5.30pm |
Walk Dogs |
5.30 – 6.30am |
Happy Hour |
6.30 – 7.30pm |
Cook/DINNER/TV (news) |
8.00 – 9.00pm |
Phone Calls |
9.00 – 10.00pm |
Reading: Pleasure |
Now I have a clear plan mapped out for the day – all I need to do is GET UP AND STICK TO IT!!! I need to be hard on myself and insist on getting out of bed. Either Get Up and WALK or Have a shower and get dressed, then WALK – do something to get the serotonin going. Be Active. Take A Stance – I need to develop a persona that re-parents myself and takes responsibility for my health & well-being. I need to kindly, but firmly direct/supervise myself in my chosen daily activities. Give myself permission to enjoy myself reading, or whatever I am doing. And keep going. Don’t give up so easily. Try and sustain the activity for the prescribed time. Stay Active…
7. What are some of your best qualities?
I would like to think of some personal qualities that are going to help motivate myself to overcome depression and take action against the lethargy, negativity and apathy…
I want to develop my skills in self-motivation, effectively motivating myself to exercise, study, read, etc. I want to be my own life coach and develop self-coaching skills.
I have an aptitude for writing and need to develop my writing skills through my blog & my university studies. I would also like to increase my general knowledge of animals, particularly Primate Biology, Conservation & Behaviour. I can do this by reading Primate Literature and completing the Online Primate Behaviour Course.
8. Where do you get stuck?
Unable to motivate myself – perhaps trying to punish myself, express my self hatred by not engaging in anything, refusing to cooperate – a bit like going on strike. It is also a form of Sabotague. Usually this takes the form of doubting my self & undermining my ability to cope. Gradually any semblance of self-confidence erodes away and I am left feeling useless and empty. My mental illness is like a self fulfilling prophecy – I can’t manage anything so I am left doing nothing.
9. How are you about doing what you say you are going to do?
Eg. Getting up earlier
10. How do you celebrate your accomplishments?
11. What makes your heart sing?
Watching inspiring zoo footage of baby animals on the news. I find watching nature/wildlife documentaries very inspiring. Going to the zoo and watching the keepers interact with the animals.
12. If there were a secret passion in your life, something that is almost too exciting to do or do more of, what would it be?
Horseriding. Living in a cabin in the woods with animals. Living a simple life, with simple pleasures in nature.